Written by
Dee Loflin, SMT Manager/Writer

Dexter, Missouri - Chad Gaylord will always be an amazing friend to Ben Kruse.  He and his wife, Nikki road their bicycles about 200 miles from Jefferson City, Missouri to Dexter to pay tribute and honor the memory of Ben.

This isn't something new to Chad, three years ago he and a friend canoed down the Missouri River and the Mississippi River to attend the event.  "They epitomize the spirit of what we are trying to do," stated Scott Kruse, Ben's brother.  "How cool is that?"

This year he offered an incredible heartfelt toast to his best friend at the Ben Kruse 18 FORE Life banquet held Friday night at the Dexter Elk’s Lodge.  Each year Chad travels back home to attend the charity event and his special sacrifice is the least he can do for his ole buddy.

He and Ben will always be great friends and the memories Chad has will always sustain his love for Ben.  The stories he can tell you about growing up in the Kruse household and the many hours spent on the golf course or just hanging out with their friends could last for hours, perhaps days. 

Chad did an extraordinary job paying homage to his longtime friend; he brought tears of joy and sadness to everyone who raised their glasses to a dear departed member of this community.  Many loved Ben, a friend to everyone he met, a devoted husband, loving uncle, doting brother, and caring son.  He will always be missed, but he left with a special place in the hearts of all who knew him.

Thank you Chad and Nikki for all the sacrifices you have made to make this a memorable occasion and a bittersweet reunion in Ben’s honor.